Summer can present many opportunities for fun, but summer stress is also extremely common and can take a significant toll. The following strategies can be especially timely during the summer season.Keep Kids Occupied
If you don't have your kids in some type of summer camp (or even if you do), you'll need to have some enriching activities to keep them happy and stimulated so boredom doesn't create misery for all of you. Allowing your older children to plan activities for younger kids (like 'treasure hunts' around the house, or games of hide-and-seek) can be a great way to keep everyone occupied in a constructive way. So can the old standbys: couch forts, board games, and educational outings. The following things
can provide an extra 'grab bag' of ideas to keep everyone happy and sane.
Pace Yourself
While summer offers many opportunities for fun activities, keep in mind that it's okay to say no to some. Sometimes even fun activities can lead to stress if your schedule is overloaded, so carefully choose among the barbeques, beach days, soirees and other activities and just do what you think you'll truly enjoy, remembering to also schedule in some down time.
Set Boundaries
While you're already setting boundaries on your social schedule, you may need to remember to set boundaries at work as well. Don't let the siren song of summer steal your focus from your job duties-stay as productive as possible-but be careful not to take on too many of your vacationing co-workers' responsibilities either. Teamwork is a good thing; just don't take on an overwhelming amount of extra work if you have a choice. (This article on how to say no can help.)
Try A Staycation or Playcation
Yes, staycations, and even playcations, have become the new vacations of choice for those who can't spare the time or the money for a traditional vacation. In some cases, these can even be better for your stress levels. (Ever hear of someone coming back from their too-busy vacation feeling like they need a vacation from their vacation? Or of a 'working vacation' that just turned into an exercise in 'working from a less convenient location'?) The key is to make relaxation or playtime the primary focus--even if for only a day or two--and get the benefit of vacations without all the expense! (And, if you do take an actual trip, remember to leave work at home and keep things simple.)
Take a Mini-Vacation
If you don't have the time, money or ability to take a full-blown vacation, you can achieve many of the same benefits by taking a mini-vacation at home. The main idea is to stop the hectic flow of activities, escape the mundane madness of daily life, or turn off the phone for a few hours. See this article for specific suggestions for mini-vacations when the real deal isn't an option.
Take Advantage of Summer Stress Relievers
Summer provides extra daylight hours for morning exercise, relaxing evening activities and fun in the garden. If you have kids around, you can also try some of these stress relievers you can do with your kids, or if you don't have children, you can still enjoy these stress relievers for your inner child.
夏(xia)季(ji)可(ke)以(yi)帶(dai)給(gei)我(wo)們(men)很(hen)多(duo)的(de)樂(le)趣(qu),但(dan)是(shi)同(tong)時(shi)夏(xia)季(ji)所(suo)帶(dai)來(lai)的(de)壓(ya)力(li)也(ye)是(shi)極(ji)為(wei)普(pu)遍(bian)的(de),它(ta)能(neng)導(dao)致(zhi)一(yi)次(ci)明(ming)顯(xian)的(de)損(sun)耗(hao)。以(yi)下(xia)的(de)一(yi)些(xie)方(fang)法(fa)可(ke)以(yi)在(zai)夏(xia)季(ji)第(di)一(yi)時(shi)間(jian)為(wei)您(nin)提(ti)供(gong)幫(bang)助(zhu)。針(zhen)對(dui)孩(hai)子(zi)們(men)的(de)~
如ru果guo你ni沒mei有you讓rang孩hai子zi們men參can加jia各ge類lei的de夏xia令ling營ying活huo動dong的de話hua,你ni就jiu需xu要yao增zeng添tian一yi些xie個ge豐feng富fu的de活huo動dong來lai使shi他ta們men感gan到dao快kuai樂le跟gen刺ci激ji,這zhe樣yang無wu聊liao也ye就jiu不bu會hui給gei全quan家jia人ren增zeng加jia苦ku惱nao了le。允yun許xu年nian長chang的de孩hai子zi為wei小xiao孩hai子zi們men設she計ji一yi些xie個ge活huo動dong(比如在你家周圍尋寶,藏貓貓的遊戲之類),這樣就是一個很好的創意來使得家裏的每一個成員都能感受到這是一個不錯的舉措。也可以是一些以往常用到備用品:長沙發城堡,棋盤玩的遊戲和有利於教育的短途旅行。以下一些事情也能提供給你一個意外的收獲,能給家人帶來快樂,心曠神怡。
平複自己
當dang夏xia季ji能neng帶dai給gei我wo們men很hen多duo好hao玩wan機ji會hui的de同tong時shi,記ji住zhu我wo們men不bu做zuo某mou些xie事shi情qing也ye是shi可ke以yi的de。有you時shi,如ru果guo日ri程cheng安an排pai的de過guo多duo的de話hua,即ji使shi有you趣qu的de活huo動dong也ye能neng帶dai給gei我wo們men壓ya力li,因yin此ci,在zai烤kao肉rou,海hai灘tan假jia日ri,聚ju會hui和he其qi它ta活huo動dong中zhong要yao慎shen重zhong作zuo出chu選xuan擇ze,要yao做zuo你ni認ren為wei會hui真zhen正zheng給gei你ni開kai來lai快kuai樂le的de活huo動dong,記ji住zhu時shi間jian安an排pai也ye要yao在zai你ni不bu忙mang的de時shi候hou。
畫清界限
當你準備與社交時間畫清楚界限的時候,你需要記住也要與你的工作畫界限。不要使得夏季的媚惑奪走了你對工作的熱誠-盡可能的發揮你的效力-但dan是shi注zhu意yi不bu要yao用yong自zi己ji的de假jia期qi來lai為wei同tong事shi承cheng擔dan責ze任ren。集ji體ti工gong作zuo還hai是shi我wo們men首shou要yao需xu考kao慮lv的de事shi情qing。一yi旦dan你ni有you了le決jue定ding,僅jin僅jin的de不bu要yao去qu再zai做zuo加jia大da工gong作zuo量liang的de任ren務wu就jiu可ke以yi。
嚐試一下居家度假或者遊戲度假
是shi的de,居ju家jia度du假jia,甚shen至zhi是shi遊you戲xi度du假jia對dui於yu那na些xie沒mei有you時shi間jian或huo是shi對dui於yu傳chuan統tong度du假jia金jin錢qian不bu足zu的de人ren們men來lai說shuo,已yi經jing成cheng為wei一yi種zhong新xin的de假jia期qi選xuan擇ze。在zai一yi些xie情qing況kuang下xia,這zhe些xie能neng對dui環huan節jie壓ya力li有you一yi定ding的de幫bang助zhu。(曾(zeng)經(jing)聽(ting)說(shuo)過(guo)某(mou)人(ren)從(cong)他(ta)們(men)勞(lao)累(lei)的(de)假(jia)期(qi)中(zhong)歸(gui)來(lai),他(ta)們(men)感(gan)覺(jiao)到(dao)好(hao)象(xiang)是(shi)需(xu)要(yao)能(neng)從(cong)他(ta)們(men)的(de)旅(lv)行(xing)中(zhong)得(de)到(dao)一(yi)次(ci)放(fang)假(jia)。或(huo)者(zhe)對(dui)於(yu)一(yi)次(ci)工(gong)作(zuo)旅(lv)行(xing)來(lai)說(shuo),那(na)難(nan)道(dao)僅(jin)僅(jin)是(shi)轉(zhuan)變(bian)為(wei)了(le)一(yi)場(chang)練(lian)習(xi)那(na)隻(zhi)是(shi)把(ba)自(zi)己(ji)投(tou)入(ru)到(dao)鍛(duan)煉(lian)-即使僅僅是一天或兩天-從旅遊中受益是用錢買不來的!(如果你確實進行了一次旅行,記住在家不要在工作了,把事情看的簡單一些。)
小旅行
如ru果guo你ni沒mei有you時shi間jian,金jin錢qian或huo是shi能neng力li去qu享xiang受shou一yi個ge完wan全quan的de旅lv行xing,那na麼me你ni可ke以yi通tong過guo在zai家jia進jin行xing一yi次ci小xiao的de旅lv行xing來lai達da到dao同tong樣yang的de目mu的de。主zhu要yao的de目mu的de就jiu是shi要yao抑yi製zhi那na種zhong忙mang亂luan的de活huo動dong,避bi開kai那na種zhong平ping凡fan呆dai板ban的de日ri常chang生sheng活huo,或huo者zhe關guan掉diao手shou機ji安an靜jing幾ji個ge小xiao時shi。當dang現xian實shi化hua的de結jie果guo讓rang你ni無wu從cong選xuan擇ze的de時shi候hou,看kan看kan這zhe篇pian文wen章zhang給gei你ni的de關guan於yu小xiao旅lv行xing的de一yi些xie特te殊shu化hua建jian議yi。
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