When you smile at someone and they smile back, you automatically feel better. Even if they don’t smile back, you will feel better because you know the most destitute person in the world is the one without a smile. You immediately become richer by giving that person yours.

    The same goes for the compliment. When you sincerely compliment a person or extend him a courtesy, he is going to receive a direct benefit and like himself better. It is impossible for you to make someone feel better and no feel better yourself.
　　　
    當dang你ni對dui別bie人ren，別bie人ren也ye會hui對dui你ni報bao以yi，你ni自zi然ran會hui感gan覺jiao很hen棒bang。即ji使shi他ta沒mei有you對dui你ni報bao以yi微wei笑xiao，你ni也ye會hui感gan覺jiao很hen棒bang，因yin為wei你ni認ren識shi到dao世shi界jie上shang最zui貧pin窮qiong的de人ren就jiu是shi從cong不bu微wei笑xiao的de人ren，當dang你ni對dui那na個ge人ren微wei笑xiao
，你ni立li刻ke變bian得de更geng加jia富fu有you。

    讚美也是這個道理。當你真誠地讚揚抑或恭維一個人時，他將立刻受益
，更喜歡自己。當你讓別人感覺更好時，你自己也會感覺更好。