Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, they serve some sort of purpose, to teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be - your roommate, neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger who, when you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way. 

    And sometimes things happen to you and at the time they may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles, you would have never realized your potential, strength, will power or heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity - all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless. 

    The people you meet who affect your life and the successes and downfalls you experience - they are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones. 

    If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them. 

    Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. 

    Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it. 

    "People are like tea bags - you have to put them in hot water before you know how strong they are." 

    有時

，一些人一闖入你的生活你便知道他們本就想這麼做，其中有著一定的目的－－或給你一個教訓，或幫助你明白你是誰或你要成為誰。你永遠也不知道這些人會是誰
，是你的舍友
、鄰居
、教授
、久違的朋友、愛人，甚或是一個完全的陌生人。當你與他們四目相對，你便知道他們會以某種深遠的方式影響你的生活。

    有時，一些事情發生了
，它們看上去是那麼可怕
、痛苦和不公


；但細想一下你就會明白
，如果沒有去努力克服這些難題，你將永遠也不會知道自己的潛能、力量、意誌力和內心。任何事情的發生都是有原因的，沒有一件事是偶然發生的或是因了某種好運或厄運發生的。疾病、傷害、愛
、真正的偉大的消逝和完全的愚蠢??所有這一切的發生都是對你的精神極限的考驗。不管這考驗是一些事件

、疾病或是某種關係，沒有了它們，生活都將隻剩下陽光大道，安穩
、舒適，但卻單調、沒有意義，不會通往任何地方。 

    你ni遇yu到dao的de那na些xie影ying響xiang你ni的de生sheng活huo的de人ren和he你ni所suo經jing曆li的de成cheng功gong或huo失shi敗bai
，都dou會hui讓rang你ni看kan清qing自zi己ji。即ji使shi是shi不bu好hao的de經jing曆li，也ye能neng讓rang你ni從cong中zhong得de到dao教jiao訓xun。這zhe些xie教jiao訓xun是shi最zui嚴yan酷ku的de
，但dan也ye可ke能neng是shi最zui重zhong要yao的de。　 

    如果有人傷害了你、背叛了你、或huo讓rang你ni心xin碎sui
，原yuan諒liang他ta們men吧ba，因yin為wei他ta們men幫bang助zhu你ni懂dong得de了le什shen麼me是shi信xin任ren，也ye讓rang你ni明ming白bai了le對dui那na些xie你ni敞chang開kai心xin扉fei交jiao往wang的de人ren保bao持chi謹jin慎shen的de重zhong要yao性xing。如ru果guo有you人ren愛ai你ni
，那na麼me也ye無wu條tiao件jian地di愛ai他ta們men吧ba，不bu光guang因yin為wei他ta們men愛ai你ni
，也ye因yin為wei他ta們men教jiao會hui了le你ni如ru何he去qu愛ai，如ru何he打da開kai心xin扉fei
、張開眼睛去感受那些沒有他們你便不能看到或感受到的世間的種種。 

    讓每一天都過得有意義吧。享受生命中的每一刻，盡你所能從中汲取，因為以後你可能沒有機會再有同樣經曆。

    yunaxienicongmeidaguozhaohuderenhuxiangjiaotanlingtingba，rangzijimuyuaiheba
，ziyoudichongpofanli，rangnideyanjiegengjiagaoyuanba。taiqinidetou
，yinweiniyouquanlizheyangzuo。xiangxinziji
，gaosuzijinihenlebuqi，yinweiruguoliannizijidoubuxiangxinziji
，bierenyouzennengxiangxinni？ninenggouanzijideyiyuanshenghuo。quchuangzaochuzijideshenghuo，ranhouzouchulaixiangshoushenghuoba。