. Have a Healthy Self-Esteem

    What i mean by a healthy self-esteem is to have a good image of yourself, I'm not talking about a high self-esteem were you see yourself above everyone else but a healthy one. Don't feel less than anybody else, and don't let anyone walk over you. Because this world is not a vertical world, but a horizontal one.

    2. Love your Neighbor

    What good do you do starting fights, looking down at people, or simply having enemies? This might sound like a cliche but the bible couldn't be more right than that, that's almost the key for life. I know we humans and even if we don't want to, we somehow create problems with each other. And sometimes for the most stupid of reasons, but here I am to tell you that we also have the power to avoid those stupid problems we create. So love your neighbor, in a brotherly way, before you insult and do something bad to someone, ask yourself; "would i do this to my brother?"

    3. Live a Real life

    The biggest mistake we can make as human beings is to put limits on our life's, don't get me wrong, it's good to have limits but it's limits that save you from problems. Now I'm talking about the bad limits we put ourselves, those limits that hold us back from all we can be. Those limits we create simply by saying "I'll never loose weight, I'm too fat already." or "I'll never get that job, I'm not qualified enough for it." Those are the limits that ruin our lives, those are those false limits that society puts in front of us to keep us weak and unsuccessful. Those are the limits that weak men and women have created to live easily through this life that they have been given. So don't limit yourself, impossible is not a fact but only an opinion.

    4. Choose were to put your ladder

    Life is full of disappointments, sometimes we depend too much on someone or something, so my tip to you, is choose wisely were to put your ladder. In todays world we cannot afford to trust our financial wall to hold our ladder, because before you know it, that wall will crumble. If we try to stand our ladder in the relationship wall, guess what? That wall will fall sooner or later. Either the girl leaves you, or you two live a happy life until one dies. If you don't believe in God, then I'm not sure what to tell you, but if there is something that will never crumble is God so if i were you, i would give him my ladder.

    5. Give Yourself a Break

    If there anything in this article that you should take with you, well it should be this. Life is tough, we mess up… A lot sometimes i recommend you live as if you already died, like if there is nothing to loose. Because you know what? You could cross the street tomorrow and be killed by a truck. So live, love enjoy the little things, the beauty of life is in the details. Tomorrow morning enjoy your cup of coffee like if it were the last you'll ever have. Hug your husband or wife like if it were the last hug… life is too short for us to take it for granted. So stop whining about having a better life, and start living what you already have.

    1.擁有健康的自尊

    我所說的"健康的自尊"指zhi的de是shi應ying當dang正zheng確que認ren識shi自zi己ji，而er不bu是shi盲mang目mu自zi負fu，認ren為wei自zi己ji淩ling駕jia於yu其qi他ta所suo有you人ren之zhi上shang。也ye不bu要yao看kan輕qing自zi己ji，不bu要yao被bei任ren何he人ren隨sui意yi擺bai布bu。記ji住zhu，這zhe個ge世shi界jie不bu是shi垂chui直zhi的de從cong屬shu關guan係xi，而er是shi水shui平ping的de平ping等deng關guan係xi。

    2.愛自己的鄰居

    鬥毆
、目中無人、無wu謂wei樹shu敵di，這zhe些xie做zuo法fa有you什shen麼me好hao處chu呢ne？這zhe麼me說shuo似si乎hu是shi陳chen詞ci濫lan調tiao，但dan是shi聖sheng經jing中zhong所suo講jiang的de道dao理li也ye無wu非fei這zhe樣yang，這zhe就jiu是shi生sheng活huo的de真zhen諦di。我wo了le解jie我wo們men人ren類lei，我wo們men總zong是shi或huo多duo或huo少shao在zai彼bi此ci之zhi間jian製zhi造zao麻ma煩fan。有you時shi候hou甚shen至zhi是shi為wei了le最zui愚yu蠢chun的de理li由you
，但dan是shi我wo要yao告gao誡jie你ni
，我wo們men自zi身shen有you能neng力li避bi免mian自zi己ji製zhi造zao的de問wen題ti。因yin此ci
，像xiang對dui待dai自zi己ji兄xiong弟di那na樣yang去qu愛ai你ni的de鄰lin居ju吧ba，在zai你ni準zhun備bei侮wu辱ru他ta人ren
，或huo采cai取qu其qi他ta惡e行xing時shi，先xian捫men心xin自zi問wen："我會這樣對待自家兄弟的嗎？"

    3.過真實的生活

    renleinenggoufandezuidacuowujiushiweizijideshenghuojiashangwuhuabamendexianzhi，dangranla，meiyouguijubuchengfangyuan

，erqiexianzhikeyishinibimianfancuo。woxianzaisuoyaojiangdeshinaxiecuowudexianzhi，zhengshitamenzunaolewomenqiannengdefahui。dagebifang
，renmenyoushishuo"我再也無法減肥了，我已經胖得不可收拾。"或者"我不可能得到那份工作，我肯定不能勝任。"這些錯誤的限製毀掉了我們的生活
，是社會環境強加於我們的
，而最終將使我們軟弱、無能。這些錯誤的限製也將削弱男人們和女人們的意誌，無法順利地擁有本已創造好的生活。因此，不要對自己妄加約束，"不可能"並不是一個事實
，而僅僅是一種觀點。

    4.選擇為自己搭建的"梯子"找靠山

    "人生事
，十常有八九不如意",有些時候我們太依賴於某人或某事，所以我的建議是
，明智地為自己搭建的"梯子"找靠山。現今社會，我們不能過於相信自己的經濟實力，因為在你弄清這一點之前，這座"靠山"就將倒塌了。如果我們依賴於社會人脈關係，猜猜會如何
？這座"靠山"遲(chi)早(zao)也(ye)會(hui)倒(dao)掉(diao)。要(yao)麼(me)是(shi)你(ni)愛(ai)的(de)女(nv)孩(hai)離(li)你(ni)而(er)去(qu)
，要(yao)麼(me)就(jiu)是(shi)你(ni)們(men)兩(liang)個(ge)相(xiang)親(qin)相(xiang)愛(ai)一(yi)生(sheng)，直(zhi)至(zhi)其(qi)中(zhong)一(yi)人(ren)辭(ci)世(shi)。如(ru)果(guo)你(ni)不(bu)信(xin)奉(feng)上(shang)帝(di)，我(wo)就(jiu)無(wu)話(hua)可(ke)說(shuo)了(le)，但(dan)是(shi)終(zhong)將(jiang)有(you)一(yi)物(wu)永(yong)遠(yuan)屹(yi)立(li)

，那(na)就(jiu)是(shi)上(shang)帝(di)。所(suo)以(yi)，如(ru)果(guo)我(wo)是(shi)你(ni)，我(wo)將(jiang)永(yong)遠(yuan)追(zhui)隨(sui)上(shang)帝(di)。

    5.留給自己充足享受的時間

    如果這篇文章對你的生活有所裨益

，我希望是這一條。生活是艱難的，我們無所適從……我(wo)更(geng)想(xiang)說(shuo)，生(sheng)活(huo)吧(ba)，就(jiu)像(xiang)是(shi)你(ni)已(yi)經(jing)死(si)去(qu)
，熱(re)愛(ai)吧(ba)，就(jiu)像(xiang)這(zhe)世(shi)上(shang)已(yi)空(kong)空(kong)如(ru)也(ye)。想(xiang)知(zhi)道(dao)原(yuan)因(yin)嗎(ma)？明(ming)天(tian)你(ni)可(ke)能(neng)穿(chuan)過(guo)街(jie)道(dao)時(shi)被(bei)卡(ka)車(che)撞(zhuang)死(si)。所(suo)以(yi)生(sheng)活(huo)時(shi)就(jiu)去(qu)享(xiang)受(shou)哪(na)怕(pa)是(shi)最(zui)微(wei)小(xiao)的(de)事(shi)情(qing)，生(sheng)活(huo)的(de)魅(mei)力(li)正(zheng)是(shi)蘊(yun)含(han)於(yu)細(xi)微(wei)之(zhi)處(chu)。明(ming)天(tian)早(zao)晨(chen)享(xiang)受(shou)你(ni)杯(bei)中(zhong)的(de)咖(ka)啡(fei)，就(jiu)像(xiang)那(na)是(shi)你(ni)生(sheng)命(ming)中(zhong)最(zui)後(hou)一(yi)杯(bei)。深(shen)情(qing)擁(yong)抱(bao)你(ni)的(de)丈(zhang)夫(fu)或(huo)妻(qi)子(zi)，就(jiu)像(xiang)那(na)是(shi)最(zui)後(hou)一(yi)次(ci)擁(yong)抱(bao)了(le)……生命對我們來說是如此短暫而無力揮霍。所以，不要為了過更好的生活而抱怨，而應該開始過你已經擁有的生活。