Being the Perfect Girlfriend can be quite a challenge. But with patience, It might JUST BE possible. Here are some tips to get you on your way.

    Step1

    YOU MUST RELAX YOUR STANDARDS. Let down your guard, and don't let etiquette be most important. This means eating like a pig (occasionally), burping, etc. Although things should be cleaned up in the end, the experience will allow you to feel comfortable with each other. That's the first important step.

    Step2

    DRESS UP SOMETIMES TO FEEL SPECIAL. This obviously is the opposite of step 1. Feel comfortable with each other, but don't get lazy. Dress up, and put effort into it. Look sexy for your man. He will definitely appreciate your effort, feel more attractive, and possibly want to return the gesture by putting more effort towards his appearance as well.

    Step3

    BE SENSITIVE OF YOUR MAN'S EGO. Although men will seem strong, our ego's can sometimes be delicate. Make your boyfriend feel good about himself through genuine compliments. Let him know you're aware of his efforts to improve certain relationship issues. And most importantly of all, communicate an idea; don't NAG about it.

    Step4

    ALLOW SPACE. A relationship is important. But so are his friends. He loves you but there are just some things that a friendship with the guys gives to him. So communicate to reach an appropriate agreement, and give him the space to balance out his relationship and friendships.

    Step5

    LISTEN. Men love to explain things. Sometimes even if you don't understand it all, try to keep an open mind. After all, he should be doing the same for you. These incidents shouldn't last too long, and he will be very grateful that you care enough to hear him completely.

    Step6

    THE WAY TO A MAN'S HEART IS THROUGH HIS BELLY. Good food is definitely a plus to becoming the perfect girlfriend. So try to make an effort to having a few good recipes. And if you don't know how to cook yet? Have a list of takeout places handy for just such an occasion. It's important because if we get hungry, we pay less attention to you (sorry in advance). So if you prevent us from getting hungry, our attention will be more focused on YOU. (which should be because you're almost the perfect girlfriend)

    Step7

    OVERTIME STEP: (NOT FOR EVERYONE). Bedroom Etiquette. Be mindful that a man's horny level is always around the same point as a woman's maximum horny point during period week. So now that you understand how we are, be gentle. If you aren't in the mood, gently let your man know IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM (remember that ego). TIP: If you are not prepared for that stage of the relationship yet for whatever reason (religion, age, culture, etc), do not feel pressured to give in. He should/must respect your values.

    Step8

    Congratulations, You've completed the steps. You are (according to my books) the Perfect Girlfriend. Great job!

    成為一個完美女友也許是一個相當有難度的挑戰。但是，隻有有耐心，就有可能成功。這裏有一些幫助你成功的方法。

    第一步

    你必須放寬你的標準。解除你的武裝，不要把禮儀當做最重要的事。這意味著偶爾像豬一樣進食、打嗝等等。雖然時候要清理幹淨，但那種感覺可以讓彼此感到舒適。 這就是第一個重要步驟。

    第二步

    偶ou爾er精jing心xin打da扮ban來lai讓rang自zi己ji與yu眾zhong不bu同tong。這zhe顯xian然ran與yu第di一yi步bu相xiang反fan，讓rang兩liang人ren感gan到dao彼bi此ci舒shu適shi，但dan不bu要yao因yin此ci而er懶lan惰duo。打da扮ban，並bing且qie認ren真zhen準zhun備bei。為wei你ni的de男nan人ren打da扮ban得de性xing感gan一yi些xie。他ta一yi定ding會hui感gan激ji你ni的de努nu力li，覺jiao得de你ni更geng加jia迷mi人ren
，他ta很hen有you可ke能neng會hui為wei了le回hui報bao而er在zai自zi己ji的de外wai表biao上shang投tou入ru更geng多duo精jing力li。

    第三步

    suishizhuyitadezizun。suirannanrenkanqilaihenqiangzhuang，tamendezizunyoushihuihencuiruo。tongguozhenchengdezanmeilaishinidenanyouduizijiganjiaolianghao。rangtalejienizhidaotadenulilaishinimendeguanxigengjinyibu。zuizhongyaodeshi，jiaoliugezidexiangfa
，bimiantiaotipiping。

    第四步

    weibiciliuchukongjian。suirannimendeguanxihenzhongyao，dantahepengyoudeguanxiyetongyangzhongyao。taaini，danyouxiedongxishizhiyoupengyounenggeiyude。yinci
，tongguogoutonglaidachengshidangdexieding，geitakongjian，rangtapinghengaiqingheyouqing。

    第五步

    qingting。nanrenmenrezhongyujieshishiwu。youshijishinibingbuwanquanmingbaizheyiqie
，jinliangbaochikaifangdexintai。bijingtayehuiweinizuotongyangdeshi。zhexiexiaochaqubuhuichixutaijiu，tajiangduinizugouyongxindeqingtingganjibuyi。

    第六步

    zhuazhunanrendeweijiunengzhuazhunanrendexin。meiweideshiwujueduishichengweiwanmeinvyoudejiafen。suoyi
，changshinuliyongyoujigenashouhaocai。ruguonibudongpengrenzenmeban？name，weizheyangdechanghezhunbeijigewaichujiucandehaodifang。zhehenzhongyao，yinweiyidanwomenele，jiuhuijianshaoduinidezhuyi（事先說一句抱歉）。因此
，如果你能阻止我們的饑餓
，我們的注意力將會更加集中在你身上。（誰讓你幾乎是完美的女友呢）

    第七步

    附加的一步（不是每個人都適用）。臥wo室shi禮li儀yi。需xu要yao注zhu意yi的de是shi，男nan人ren的de高gao潮chao總zong是shi在zai女nv人ren達da到dao高gao潮chao的de前qian後hou到dao來lai。既ji然ran你ni已yi經jing了le解jie了le我wo們men的de節jie奏zou
，溫wen柔rou一yi些xie。如ru果guo你ni不bu在zai狀zhuang態tai，委wei婉wan地di告gao訴su你ni的de男nan人ren，那na不bu是shi他ta的de原yuan因yin（記住他的自尊）。小貼士：無論出於何種原因（宗教
，年齡
，文化
，等等）如果你還沒有為你們的這一層關係準備好
，不要因為有壓力就讓步。他應該並且必須尊重你的價值觀。

    第八步

    恭喜，你已經完成了所以的步驟。你已經成為完美女友了（根據我的書）。太棒了！